Relatable best friend third wheeling from @erinasimon
The creator narrates over a montage of video clips to define what she considers a "real" best friendship. She explains the dynamic where one friend is married and the other is single, becoming like an "adopted kid" to the couple, showing examples like having a dedicated room at their house, being cooked for, and the husband knowing to give them space. The video shows the creator with her married best friend and her husband, illustrating these points.
Creator: @erinasimon on Instagram
Video format
Vlog
Video outline
- State a gatekeeping premise
- Present the core dynamic
- Provide proof of inclusion
- Reveal the ultimate validation
Hook overview
A bold, exclusionary statement that defines a 'true' version of an identity or relationship, immediately challenging the viewer to self-qualify.
Title hook
you're not real best friends
Verbal hook
You're not real best friends unless one of you is happily married, and the other one third wheels the relationship like they're the adopted kid.
Visual hook
The video opens with a shot of two people walking away from the camera down a path, creating a sense of following a story. A picture-in-picture of the narrator's face is also immediately visible, adding a direct human connection.
Hook strategies
- opinions-polarization
- relatability-contrast
Payoff
The viewer feels a sense of validation and belonging if they relate to the criteria, or aspiration if they don't, solidifying the creator's authority on the topic.
Narrative framework
The Gatekeeper's Gauntlet
Narrative framework logic
A gatekeeping premise ('You're not a real X unless...') that challenges the viewer to see if they meet a series of increasingly specific and intimate criteria, validating a niche identity or relationship.
Narrative framework breakdown
- frameworkName: The Gatekeeper's Gauntlet
- frameworkType: List-Style Narrative
- coreLogic: A gatekeeping premise ('You're not a real X unless...') that challenges the viewer to see if they meet a series of increasingly specific and intimate criteria, validating a niche identity or relationship.
- confidence: 95
- pendingStatus: created
Topics: Friendship, Relationships
Concepts: Anecdotal Philosophy, Relatable One Shot
Formats: Vlog
Elements: Picture-in-Picture, B-Roll Cutaway, Text Overlay, Voiceover
Account types: Personal Brand
Transcript excerpt
Are not real best friends unless one of you is happily married, and the other one third wheels the relationship like they're the adopted kid. They got a room just for you to stay in whenever you visit, and they always cook for you. And her husband knows to disappear when it's bestie time because he knows you're the favorite.
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