Man debates woman's relationship take. from @nycdivorcelawyer

Name: Man debates woman's relationship take. from @nycdivorcelawyer
Uploaded: 2026-01-16T01:35:45.000Z
Duration: 108 s
Channel: nycdivorcelawyer
Description: A man reacts to a video clip of a woman discussing the "mental load" in relationships. He listens to her argument against husbands asking for to-do lists, and then presents his counter-argument, systematically disagreeing with her perspective and breaking down his reasons based on communication, division of labor, and unfair expectations.

A man reacts to a video clip of a woman discussing the "mental load" in relationships. He listens to her argument against husbands asking for to-do lists, and then presents his counter-argument, systematically disagreeing with her perspective and breaking down his reasons based on communication, division of labor, and unfair expectations.

Creator: @nycdivorcelawyer on Instagram

Transcript

Is discussing the mental load and men, asking to make a list because I'm not a mind reader. I cannot stand when husbands tell their wives, just make me a list of all the things you want me to do. I'm not a mind reader. I always tell people, if you have me make a list then I have to do more of the mental load. I now have to look at everything that needs to get done. Why doesn't your spouse, husband, boyfriend, whoever it is, see the exact same things that you see. Do they see that the toilet need

Topics: Relationships, Psychology, Dating

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