Lawyer's trick for dealing with narcissists from @lisabilyeu
A divorce attorney tells a story about a client who wanted Memorial Day in a visitation schedule negotiation with her narcissistic ex-partner. To achieve this, the attorney explains how he intentionally asked the opposing counsel for Labor Day, knowing the narcissist's ego would compel them to refuse and insist on the opposite. By predicting and leveraging this contrarian behavior, he successfully secured Memorial Day for his client, illustrating his strategy of laying traps based on a narcissist's predictable need to oppose.
Creator: @lisabilyeu on Instagram
Transcript
Great thing about narcissists is you can always count on their ego being there. I had a case recently where we were arguing over a visitation schedule, and my client really wanted Memorial Day this year. And she said, you know, can can you get me Memorial Day? And usually, whoever has Memorial Day, the other person gets Labor Day. So I said, good. This is like, you know, everything we ask for is a fight. And he was she's like, I know it's really important. So I was like, okay. Let me see if I co
Topics: Psychology, Relationships, Self-Improvement
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