Speaker shares a relationship hot take from @nycdivorcelawyer

The speaker delivers a monologue arguing for the value of sexualizing one's partner within a relationship. He posits that partners desire to be not only loved and respected but also seen as an object of desire. To support his point, he recounts a humorous meme involving a text exchange that illustrates this dynamic, concluding that this is a natural part of relationships, distinct from the unrealistic portrayals in pornography.

Creator: @nycdivorcelawyer on Instagram

Transcript

Sending nudes to each other or doing, like, sexualizing each other. I think that there is value in sexualizing your sex partner. Like, I think that, you know, your your your partner wants to be loved and respected and objectified. You know? Like, I think that you you want that. Like, you want this person to go, yeah. I love you, and I think you're smart and you're brilliant, but I I also really just find you an object of desire. Like, I I don't know a woman who wouldn't wanna hear that. You no?

Topics: Relationships, Dating, Psychology